Tuesday, July 15, 2008

The type of guys girls won't wanna fall for

To all the ladies out there, here's your chance to take a sit back and reflect which does these type of guys seemed familiar to you...haha! Enjoy!

5 TYPES OF MEN WHOM YOU MAY NOT WANNA FACE WITH

Scenario 1

Guy impressed girl with fancy stuffs on the first date. Bring her out to fancy places, treat her like a princess. Splurge on expensive stuffs for her at the courting stage. Willing to take up all the time and effort to help her in whatever ways that she needed.
Now, after a few mths (say 1-2 mths) the girl delays the time line for the guy to court her. At this stage, the guys is finally wearing off a little from courting. Two alternatives that the guy may resort to :

Alternative 1 (The Material type)
Guy find a new potential target to prey on and slowly let loose of this girl he's chasing by withdrawing all the incentives and benefits he used to provide to girl and used the excuse that after sometime, since there is no responses...he would like to so-called "re-consider" the current status as he "isn't sure" and yet to "decide" what's the best thing to do which leaves the girl hanging up there like that to slowly move away from her.

Alternative 2 (The Scared-to-lose-his-face type)
This is where some guy would take the risk by taking the action immediately to re-confirm the status with the girl to assure that they are still in the correct path. At this stage, the guy is leaving the whatever fate to the girl to decide now.

Results from:

Alternative 1 (The Material type)
After a while that guy manage to stray from the girl he supposedly rejected in an excusable way, he then decides to be thick skin and kiasu by demanding for the expensive female stuffs that he used to get for her. He will do what it takes recover from the cost of splurging on her.

Alternative 2 (The Scared-to-lose-his-face type)
After a negative confirmation from the girl, he faces the 'ultimate-rejection'. He decides to spare no mercy. At this point, he tries not to have any contact with the girl. So he quickly withdrew all his contact and whatever possible ways that he used to be affiliated with the girl including common friends they used to have and other areas where he used to assist her in.

Scenario 2

Guy developed some liking/attractions for the girl. Girl kinda fell for it too but she chooses to refrain from being vulnerable to the 'sincerity' of the guy. Things were smooth sailing, the girl sees the guy as a potential one but has not commit a thing yet due to many uncertainties that will explained in the following possible outcomes. They are three possible outcomes of the guy in this scenario.

Outcome 1 (The-highly-ambitious-but-flirtatious-with-words type)
Manager/Senior level. Quite successful. Appear to be very stable kinda guy but yet made no actions from the words that may seem to deceive the girl. A possible example could be: Guy failed to confirmed most dates with the girl as he has always been very very very very busy with his work etc. He would give 101 excuses and 101 promises to make up for the failures most of the time which never happen to eventuate.

Outcome 2 (The-highly-egoistic type)
Career minded person. Take things very seriously. The long term type of commitment guy may sounds like very stable and the kind any girl may think its reliable. But his ego is like a mountainful filled with restrictions and does not look into matter lightly. May not necessary project a 'fairy-tale' kinda guy but think very realistically and logically for long term convenience..

Outcome 3 (The-afraid-to-commit-but-yet-still-shower-the-girl-with-everything)
He maybe rich or generous in splurging expensive items for that girl but yet he runs away fast from the word 'commitment'. He would rather prefers casual but shows the action of a committed guy to the girl.

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