I once told a story to Sarah, which ended with her saying "yerr..guys are so shallow..". The content of the story was rather simple. I told her that WE (guys) are visual creatures..you turn our head visually and we are officially owned. Which of course I will admit, we are shallow, cause we are visual, but can you imagine...IF we weren't visual creatures, how will YOU (girls) actually attact us??
If we weren't visual Lesson 1
I am not sure if you girls actually know this but I am suggesting that you ALL know...when you wear your Jimmy Choo, Prada and etc etc...we actually..dont notice..or dont know its a 1000 bucks pair of shoes?? or when you put on your LV or Burberry bag, WE really dont know and dont notice...and I know for a fact that you all put those fancy things on just to brag to OTHER GIRLS that you all have a Prada or LV.
But it doesnt change the fact that you all show more skin JUST to turn guys head. We are suckers for mini skirt YOU all know that..simpler english..we like it when girls wear less..
So imagine if WE weren't visual only, who you gonna show your legs to?? who you gonna show your cleavage to?? who you gonna show your mini skirt to?? whos head do you expect to turn when you wear on some super sexy bikini??
The fact is girls have uncover this little secret about guys and yet you all wanna criticise it...so really just take a moment to imagine how bad this world will be...if WE arent visual.
If we weren't visual Lesson 2
And so the Lust industry make billions and billions on dollars exploiting the guys so called visual turn ons, its because we are all visual thats how people like Hugh Hefner is so rich and so it some porn producing companies..So if we weren't visual, Hugh Hefner wont come out with a magazine that give guys a boner, porn industry will just die off cause...hey we are just not turned on seeing people fuck on screen..
Which brings me to a topic I was telling my friends and also the person above that called me shallow..if we dont get turned on visually..instead..like you girls..emotionally..or according to mood..or I dont know..something...anything. This world would be crazy shit..examples are below.. :)
Imagine, girl gives guy a present...something he really wants...he goes all happy...and then get a boner..
Imagine, girl tells guy 'I love you..' he gets all arroused and gets a boner..
Imagine, girl bakes a cake for guy, he goes all emo and then gets a boner..
Imagine, girl says nice things to guys...and then he gets a boner..
Imagine, you give us a hug, we feel safe around you...and then gets a boner..
I can give you more..but just on that few examples I think you can more or less imagine how sick this world can be if guys are NOT visual..
So God is fair, He gave girls all those nice assets which we crave for and make us visual so that we make good pets for you (girls). So dont go about saying we are shallow and all cause if you just picture all those shit I listed above, you will be happy that we are visual..
If we werent visual Lesson 3
If we werent visual the internet will go into a slump considering 20% of websites are porn and 40+% searches are for porn.
Now I am sure you all don't want that to happen..
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1) Men (and womyn) are products of FLAWED socialization.
Womyn (sex objects), are taught that beauty/sex = attracts men
Men (success objects), are taught that money/success = attracts women
And we are fed that shit everyday from the day we are born. We see it on TV, the internet, pop culture (even "culture" with a capital C), the media, magazines, advertisements, parents, teachers and peers.
The behaviours of men that you have described are nothing more than bare human nature, to some extent.
First example, the chase.
Men love a challenge. Well, women enjoy it as much as men too (only they don't admit it). Why do women only "go after" the emotionally unavailable jerks? The challenge that they can *change* them, hun. I rest my case.
Second example, showing off.
Women show off LV, Prada and Gucci just like men love showing off their gadgets or skills (and unfortunately, sometimes even "their" women).
There may be some superficial differences, like sex for example:
Biologically, testosterone is linked to a higher sex drive, hence men (who have higher levels of said hormone than women) have a tendency to want to have sex more often, and therefore fantasize more and are easily turned on.
However, studies have shown that women actually want as much sex as men, and have high sex drives during ovulation (which actually exceeds the male sex drive). The only difference is that the male sex drive is spread out over time, whereas the female sex drive comes in peaks and troughs.
Fundamentally however, both sexes love having sex as much as the other. The only difference is one of timing and intensity of their sex drives.
Also, women get turned on visually too - I have never met a (sexually confident and perhaps active) woman who is not at least turned on by some kinds of porn - there is a whole industry of women-specific porn out there. [Of course, there are reasons as to why women don't get turned on more by the same kinds of porn that men do - such as (again) firstly the issue of socialisation and secondly, psychological differences (is more or less attributable to socialisation too).
To clarify: It may be true that women get more turned on emotionally, whilst men get more turned on visually, but that may well have to do with the realm of cognitive behavioural psychology. (In case you don't know, cognitive psychology looks at the reasons that influence a person's behaviour - nature vs nurture - i.e. external socialisation or internal biology). The current trend of that debate however, is to see it as a combination of the two in some aspects - (see for example my comment on testosterone and its effects on sex drive).
I think it's just silly to start a "battle of the sexes". In the short run, you may not be able to control who you jump into the sack with especially when you're Under the Influence, but in the long run, love is a concious choice. I just don't see why society has to make that choice for us.
erm, this is worthy of a post in itself..
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